For our own format with real ip (from proxy forwarded for header) and upstream response times:
log_format combined_w_timing '$http_x_forwarded_for [$remote_addr] - $remote_user [$time_local] '
'"$request" $status $body_bytes_sent '
'"$http_referer" "$http_user_agent" '
'[$upstream_response_time $request_time]';