$re = '/\((?!\d+\))[^)]+?\)/';
$str = '(3) will not be replaced
(1234) will not be replaced
(some letters) will be replaced
(some letters, spaces - and numbers 123) will be replaced
';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php