$re = '/(\bShe\b)(?:(?!\b(?:she|loves|you)\b).)*(\bloves\b)(?:(?!\b(?:she|loves|you)\b).)*(\byou\b)/mi';
$str = 'you gave up the love you got & that is that
she loves me now she loves you not and that where its at';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php