$re = '/(https?://(?![^\s\/]+youtu)[^\s\)\]?]+)\?([^\s\)\]?]{20,})/m';
$str = 'https://www.aliexpress.com/item/4000050337687.html?spm=a2g0o.productlist.0.0.70c9492bADfZA5&algo_pvid=66a91537-1872-4a3b-ab39-e9d130970423&algo_exp_id=66a91537-1872-4a3b-ab39-e9d130970423-0&pdp_ext_f=%7B%22sku_id%22%3A%2210000003069527876%22%7D&pdp_npi=2%40dis%21EUR%2118.03%2114.07%21%21%21%21%21%402100bdd816603176696127137ebeac%2110000003069527876%21sea&curPageLogUid=8f5jqvWtAYMa';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php