$re = '/(?<!\((?=[^()\n]*\))[^()\n]*)big/m';
$str = 'Should Match:
I like big cakes
I like (big cakes
I like big) cakes
I like xx big xx cakes
I like ( xx big xx cakes
I like xx big xx) cakes
Should not Match:
I like (big) cakes
I like (xx big xx) cakes';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php