$re = '/(?<=\bopt[123]\s(?!\s*opt\d)).*?(?=\s*\bbecause_of_this\b)/m';
$str = 'other text opt1 opt2 opt3 I_want_only_this_text because_of_this';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php