$re = '/(?:https?:\/\/)(?:www\.)?(?:youtube|youtu)\.(?:be|com)\/[^\s]+/';
$str = 'hi how are you check it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_p8ZXIRFJI youtube link can be of this type https://youtu.be/_3tVL-ZAc4k';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
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