$re = '/(?<lt><)(?:(?!\/?[[:alnum:]]*>))|(?:\s[[:alnum:]]*)(?<gt>>)/U';
$str = '<tag>text</tag>
<tag2>3 is > than 2</tag2>
<tag3>But 1 in < than 4</tag3>
<tag3>But sometimes we<want or>this</tag3>
<tag3>Or even things like this< < <symbols</tag3>';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
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