$re = '/(?:\G(?!\A)|{)[^{}]*?\K\([^()]*\)(?=[^{}]*})/m';
$str = '{foo (i,j) bar} should match on (i,j)
{(i,j) foo (k,l) bar (m,n,o)} should match on (i,j), (k,l), and (m,n,o).
foo (i,j) bar should not match on anything because the string is not between swirly brackets.
{foo (i,j) bar} (k,l) should match on (i,j) but not (k,l) because the latter is outside of the swirly brackets.';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php