$re = '/<tag_([A-Z0-9]*)\b[^>]*>.*?<tag_([A-Z0-9]*)\b[^>]*>[^\/]*?(?!(\/tag_\2))\/tag_\1>/i';
$str = '<tag_1> xx <tag_2> xx </tag_1> xx </tag_2> xx <tag_1> xx <tag_3> xx <tag_4> xx </tag_4> xx </tag_3> </tag_1>';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php