$re = '/href=["\']https?:\/\/(?<hostname>[^\/"]+)[^>]+>(?:https?:\/\/)?(?!.*\k\'hostname\')/i';
$str = '<A HREF="http://phishers.org/we_want_your_money.htm">http://someLegitimateSite.com/somewhere </A>
<a href="https://example.com/subfolder">example.com</a>
<a href="http://somebadsite.com">https://somegoodsite.com</a>
';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php