$re = '/\[url[^]]*\]((?:(?!\[\/url\]).)*youtu(?:(?!\[\/url\]).)*)\[\/url\]/m';
$str = '[url]blahyoutubeblah[/url] heyya [url]blahblah[/url] [url]www.youtube.com/blah[/url]
[url]foobar youtube[b]BOLD TEXT[/b][/url]';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php