$re = '/(<|>)(?!(<span[^>]+class\s*=\s*("|\')subValue\2[^>]*>)[^<]*(<\/span>)|(<br[\/]*>))/i';
$str = '<span class="subValue"></span>
<br>
<br>
<span class=\'subValue\'>dsa</span>
<>';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php