$re = '~\[\*\*]([^[]*(?:\[(?!/?\*\*])[^[]*)*)\[/\*\*]~';
$str = '[table]
[**]header1[||]header2[||]header3[||]...[/**]
[*]child1.1[|]child1.2[|]child1.3[|]...
[*]child2.1[|]child2.2[|]child2.3[|]...
[*]child3.1[|]child3.2[|]child3.3[|]...
[*]...[|]...[|]...[|]...
[/table]';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php