$re = '/(,[^.?]*)( and|or)\b/im';
$str = 'I love my parents, Bon Jovi and Lada Gaga.
We invited the strippers, Hitler and Stalin.
The problem is, you can never know if the user is making a list, or just typing a bunch of words and inserting commas.';
$subst = "$1,$2";
$result = preg_replace($re, $subst, $str);
echo "The result of the substitution is ".$result;
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php