$re = '/[^\s-]\K-\s{1,3}/m';
$str = 'The number of spaces after the hyphen can be 1, 2 or 3 like hyphen- ated, hyphen- ated, hyphen- ated .
This is a text with a hyphen- ated word in the middle of the sentence. But it also has - dashes - like the ones in the second sentence. The latter should not be modified';
$subst = "";
$result = preg_replace($re, $subst, $str);
echo "The result of the substitution is ".$result;
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php