$re = '/<iframe.*?src="(?![^"]*(?:youtube|vimeo|soundcloud)).*?<\/iframe>/';
$str = '<p><iframe src="http://www.3you3tube.com/embed/YoX1yc92MOU" width="500" height="300" frameborder="0" scrolling="auto"></iframe></p>
29 <p>text daily to place domain staff as volunteers with charity partners, we know all too well that the "V" word can sometimes be misunderstood. Occasionally seen as a dusty, worthy word, it can conjure images of coffee mornings and bric-a-brac stalls. So its not always as easy as you might think to get people to embrace their inner-volunteer. That\'s why the <a href="http://www.domain.co.uk/sdfn/2010/11/connect-create-domain-volunteers.shtml">Conne<p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/YoX1yc92MOU" width="500" height="300" frameborder="0" scrolling="auto"></iframe></p>';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
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