$re = '/(?<!\\\\){(.*?)(?<!\\\\)}/';
$str = 'dont want \\{dont want \'want\\} this\', \'want this, je m\\\'appelle Robert\', d{ont want\\}
\'dont want\' {hello} {truc} {blabla qsddqs}
';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php