$re = '/(?<!(?:name|city|(?<=nu)mber)\(|\[)(["\'])[^)\]]+?(?<!\\\\)\1/';
$str = '("h") ["hi"] {"hi"}
a("hI")
j("hi")
j(\'hi\')
name("hi")
name(\'hi\')
n("hi")
city(\'hi\')
number(\'hi\')';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php