$re = '/^[^\W_]+(?:[-_.][^\W_]+){0,3}$/m';
$str = 'exampletag
example-tag
ex-ample-tag
ex_ample_tag
ex-ample_tag
ex.am-ple_tag
Ex.4m-p1e_t4g
ex-am-pl-et-ag
// and variations where there\'s more than 3 `-` `_` or `.`
-exampletag
// no starting symbols
exampletag-
// no trailing symbols';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php