$re = '/<(?![^<>]*\/\s*>)([a-zA-Z]+)(?:\s+[^\/<>"=\s]+(?:=(?:"[^<>"]*"?|[^=<>"\s]*"?)?)?)*>/m';
$str = 'should match the following
<ref>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com">
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2=>
<ref name=gbtribune.files.wordpress.com>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com>
<ref name=gbtribune.files.wordpress.com">
should not match the following:
<ref />
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" />
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2 />
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2= />
<ref/>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com"/>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2/>
<ref name="gbtribune.files.wordpress.com" name2=/>';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php