$re = '/^[a-zA-Z](?!.*([\'-]).*\1)(?!.* )(?=.{0,19}$)[a-zA-Z\'-]*(?: (?<=[a-zA-Z] )[a-zA-Z][a-zA-Z\'-]*)*$/m';
$str = 'This is aa
This is aa test
aa aa aa aa aa aa aa
This should m\'atch
This a-lso\'
This is a test
a b
aa
a
This is 4 test
This is aa test
This\' is aa tes
This is aaaa longer test
This sh\'o\'uld not
This sh-o-uld not
';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php