$re = '/(?i)\b(?:hap+y+\s*b(?:irthday+|da?y+)|HBD+)\b(?:\s*to\s*([^\d\s]+))?/m';
$str = 'happy birthday
happy birthdayyyyy
happy birthday!
happy bdyyy
happy bdayyy
hbd
HBDD
happy birthday
happyyyy birthdayyyy
happy happy birthday
a very happy birthday
i wish you a very happy birthdayyy
';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php